How do you know when its love or lust?
I convinced myself it's lust but after nearly a year and a half, I still think about him hourly....
36-40, F
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whateverhappens · 26-30, F
same here, first with lust but then like few yrs started thinking about having more than just that type of relationship with him & i guess thats when you know, no one is gonna be thinking about a family with a person they lust for, so.. yea lol
AlphaCuck · 51-55, M
Well, you can't help but love someone if you do but when it comes to love I guess you gotta ask yourself if they were right for you.
everythingisvanilla · 36-40, F
I can't get rid of the feelings....is that the same thing? I haven't seen him for 8 months and still can't stop thinking about him all the time.
AlphaCuck · 51-55, M
@everythingisvanilla: It could be but it's one thing to lust for someone and another to see him as a partner or kindred spirit. I mean, the love that you want is mutual, as in it's the kind where you both care for each other.
WorldAtArms2000 · 22-25, M
"When you know, you'll know. And I know."
-Vance Joy
Trust me, if it's love, you'll be sure of it soon.
-Vance Joy
Trust me, if it's love, you'll be sure of it soon.
SW-User
Take a day at the time. Have fun while it lasts, only time will tell if it's love or lust.
SW-User
If it is still lust after a year, it will never be anything else.
mic11225 · 26-30, M
Love is a combination of feeling and behavior. Lust is just a feeling.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Is he a coworker or a friend
amvanquish · 51-55, M
It's best when it's both.