Is he just using her??

My cousin has this family friend that’s her age and they’ve known each other for years but never really talked. Anyway, he added her on social media and started to talk to her. He started flirting and said all these years he’s liked her but was scared to say anything. Long story short, he has a gf but she’s abusive (hits him, verbal abuse, nags that he can’t do anything good) so he’s tired of it. He wants to start dating my cousin but doesn’t know how to leave his girl.
Recently, since yesterday morning he left my cousin on read and watches her stories but doesn’t talk to her. Was he just using her?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Sounds like he needs to deal with what he has going on with his abusive gf before dragging your cousin into his drama. Let me ask you, if she's abusive to him how do you think she will react if she finds out he's talking to your cousin? Tell your cousin to tell him to clean up his drama first. She doesn't need someone else's problems to become her problems.

luvonablock · F

@AngelUnforgiven I definitely will tell her. I’ve told her it’s unnecessary drama and she’s the type to stay to herself for her own peace so it’s best they leave each other alone. She’s having that “a guy is talking to me” excitement but scared she did something wrong when they’ve only had conversations about getting to know each other