My aunt married the guy that said this to her. She then suffered through 55 years of abuse and cheating. :(

Yes.

one of the most manipulative behaviors

threatening to put his blood on your hands.

they are responsible for their own behavior - not you

It means he's controlling and you're letting him do it to you. Not rocket science.

It is beyond toxic…it is outrageous how someone could hold u responsible for their life☹

They are trying to blackmail you / hold you hostage.

Call their bluff, if you're wrong they can only do it once

yes