My 21 year old son is beyond uncomfortable with me dating despite me being divorced 4 years now

I understand that young men don’t want to think about mom dating or having needs but there needs to at least be some compromise. It’s really upsetting to not be able to pay attention to my own wants and needs on account of upsetting my son.

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Cantsayno · 51-55, M

He needs to get over it. I started dating after my wife passed away from cancer 5 years ago.
I’m sorry but we need to live our lives too.
It’s not being selfish to put ourselves first sometimes.
Good luck