My 21 year old son is beyond uncomfortable with me dating despite me being divorced 4 years now

I understand that young men don’t want to think about mom dating or having needs but there needs to at least be some compromise. It’s really upsetting to not be able to pay attention to my own wants and needs on account of upsetting my son.

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RebeccaJP · 41-45, F

As harsh as it sounds I think your son needs to grow up and try to understand things from your perspective. I think that you should talk to him and tell him that you still have a lot of life to live, and you want a partner to share that with. I don’t think he needs to hear about your “needs” though! Go ahead and start dating. He has to learn that you want and need to move on.

Scousepeter · 36-40, M

@RebeccaJP well said