My 21 year old son is beyond uncomfortable with me dating despite me being divorced 4 years now

I understand that young men don’t want to think about mom dating or having needs but there needs to at least be some compromise. It’s really upsetting to not be able to pay attention to my own wants and needs on account of upsetting my son.

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Carazaa · F

Friends are good to have but be careful because if you marry it can bring potential financial devastation to your children. Husbands can come with their own kids and wives, and it can complicate life for kids.

peterlee · M

@Carazaa

I don’t think this is a matter of financial support.

I happily supported my wives children. One lived with us until he was 28. then I then loaned him money to get a flat.

The other needed a father badly. He took my nsme. His choice.