If the dating narrative was reversed...

Not that I am in the market. (Having learned how much trouble one woman can cause, why would I want more?) But the way it always worked for me was to just be the kind of guy a woman might want to have around and wait...Does that not work any more?😷

No such thing happens in the Zo é tribe of Brazil.

Women pick their mates. As many as they want even. It's a matriarchal society.... for the time being. Unless they get brainwashed, which is being attempted.

It really makes missionaries mad that it's a proscribed tribe. And they don't always listen to the laws

This makes no sense. If asking someone on a date labels the person asking a creep, there would be no dating.

Also why would a man feel unattractive when they approach a woman?

Presumably you're not standing on a street corner, asking passerby out.

Totally