Why do people use each other?

I've noticed that the guys get with a girl "play their role" then when he's done benefiting off her now he's single. That's the 1st mistake some women make. They start providing and giving their all when he hasn't even fully committed to her. They are just "passing time" until they find someone who they truly want. What's your experience with relationships in your area?

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SW-User

SO TRUE, I mean my closest friend in class is the type to help everyone and she kinda got a thing going w the typical spoilt brat, and she was frustrated he didn't really reciprocate it. I'm friendly with everyone so he ended up telling me that people are just a way of passing time and that he thinks most girls are just to be played with (lol). She is pretty bad at reading people so she ended up crying a lot when she got to know how he was..
One of the many reasons why I avoid all this bs xD

PrettyGurl24 · 31-35, F

I agree. They also cheat. It's still wrong but some women need to stop giving their all so soon. That definitely will run a guy off. I mean shes taking care of him, getting laid, roof over his head, getting fed so of course he's gonna stick around...until He finds a girl that isn't so desperate to keep him. Some of these women don't understand LEAVE. SOME. MYSTERY..Dont give more than he's giving you. These guys are so used to getting their way it'll shock them when they find a female who respects herself. These females will put up with anything just to say they have a man. I'm with you. I'm not marrying no time soon. Eventually we will be lead to the person we're meant to be with.

SW-User

This.