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Got love bombed for a week and then ghosted

Im ok now but it was a gut punch at the time. Im still getting over a breakup so im kinda fragile. People are cruel. Its not like I was looking for that even. Just thought I was vibing with someone.

I won't post his name here because I don't want backlash. But I know he's done this to others too. 😐

Edit: you know what, I have had so many women message me about this guy that I will share his name. It's Slorollin. He is using a pic that looks nothing like him and serially love bombing women before ghosting. You're welcome.
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Miram · 31-35, F
I am curious but I have few names at mind.
A little out of topic, but I don't think it is healthy how some people here move from a person to another romantically. Always finding new love interests. It feels trivializing..and because of all the romantic entanglements these cliques form against each other and fall apart too.

Not necessarily just on SW.
Tumbleweed · F
Been there & then got blocked!! I don't know him, never seen his face, so I wouldn't profess my endless love for him so he got mad & blocked me!
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Tumbleweed wow thats a lot to expect lol
Tumbleweed · F
@Kuronekko Yeah he started right out the gate with I love you & all that, then about a week or so later, was still doing it & it was creepy so I didn't respond & he blocked me!
It wasn't me 👀

Tbh people are shady online and particularly on sites like this where so many people have a host of issues. It's a bit like being on a used car lot run by Shady McShady and expecting to find a car that will last you. You're more likely to find the car crash that you didn't want.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@UBotMate Lol I wasn't looking for anything serious, but people convince you that you found it.
@Kuronekko Yep, they do indeed do that. Tbh a lot of them are just like cats with a new chasing toy. They'll play with it for a little but then they get bored and need to hunt something else.
I read we are reflecting mirrors of ourselves to a degree. This doesn't mean we 'like' everything about someone but may be a couple of our own traits that we see in them. Recently, I've realized this has happened to me (even though it wasn't reciprocated).
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nihiless Yeah I don't think it's what was happening here. Some guys will mirror on purpose to manipulate you.
@Kuronekko Yeah that's true, just ensure that you don't chase him now or monitor him here. I know it's hard if you like someone but if he did it once he doesn't deserve you. 🖤
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nihiless I'll never chase someone like that. I'm too old for those games. I'm doing what I can to let others know who he is though. I know there are people here who he's really hurt.
That's why I rarely compliment, but it doesn't mean I don't think someone is beautiful and desirable. Being attentive should be enough of a hint to all of that.
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@Kuronekko I'll compliment in person, when I can see, hear, and experience exactly who and what I am complimenting. And that takes me a long time.
I've been suckered and catfished before, during the dawn of the internet.🙂
Ha! I probably know them. Some guys here make their rounds. They chat you up then toss you away later if they aren't getting what they want.
Just bad luck, sw is full of so many great people
@Kuronekko it’s the quiet ones you watch!
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nunlover These are funny and outgoing on the surface. Idk how anyone would tell the difference
@tenente I’ll take her in my messages any day 😉
Unfortunately, that is more the norm these days than not ...

The person is most likely married and bored or in a sexless marriage...

Keep your guard up
Sorry that happened to you
shock and awe!

actually I dunno what to make of that. sorry. it sounds like a difficult time.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@dirge wasn't pleasant 😒
@Kuronekko the build up is usually pretty fun, but the crash back to reality kinda sucks. which is probably true for far too many things.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@dirge yeah it was like getting the wind knocked out of me.
Lilymoon · F
Sorry that happened to you. Hugs
popmol · 26-30, M
i'm so sorry to hear :(
JackHoff · 46-50, M
Sorry that happen to you.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
That sucks but I think you have to take online dating with a grain of salt. I think there are a lot of people on here that are just window shopping. And it is easy to strike up interest with someone with no intention of our meeting or developing a relationship.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@melbeacher its hard to meet people in real life these days, things have changed a lot.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
@Kuronekko I completely agree
in10RjFox · M
Who tried to shop who ? May be he didn't like the product or the service.. so he may have gone to another shop..
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@in10RjFox ugh just go away.
Sounds like he was thought lovebombing you would soften the blow. I'm so sorry :(
Sorry you went through that
ironborn · 51-55, M
This place is ok for friendships, not relationships imo.
YoMomma ·
Ay i know the type 😏
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@YoMomma I think you know him.
There’s a lot of those here.
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst of course not lol we're friends 🤗
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Kuronekko good I'm glad 🤗
496sbc · 36-40, M
That’s not cool he did that
Magenta · F
😑 And this is just another reason for this..

https://similarworlds.com/literature/write-how-i-feel/5269571-This-is-EXACTLY-how-I-feel-anyhow
Magenta · F
@Kuronekko There's always excuses from others too, "take on-line with a grain of salt", "don't take on-line serious", "don't or do or do or don't, blah". Which only serves to take all responsibility away and trivializes and invalidates everything!😒
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Magenta yeah these are so unhelpful. Victim blaming.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Magenta ikr
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Notsimilarreally I don't think he goes anywhere. I'll pm you.
HeadAboveWater · 31-35, M
Pick them better hun
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@HeadAboveWater It's not like they wear a label warning you of their real intent. They are kind, present, funny and nice. Honestly, how??
HeadAboveWater · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko maybe you need to ask better questions? Try not to get yourself caught up in how you feel?

Pick up on the patterns (i.e. - there answers to the questions you ask)

Maybe change what you look for in a person
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@HeadAboveWater I wasn't looking for anything. I don't think you get what happened here lol
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Its easy to get suckered into that kind of stuff :(
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Kuronekko i felt like a drug addict when they took the attention away 😢
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@PaleandPolluted yeah I felt like I was being sucked into a plughole lol
Yuck.
Men.

Give them a boner, and once it's gone, they don't know what to do.
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pancakeslam · 46-50, M
SloRollin sounds like he should be called FastRollin. At least Mr. Rollin tries to be part of the community unlike some lechers but I dunno him. Did he try and catfish you with any dpics?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@pancakeslam he catfishes with his nice guy routine.
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Online men act like giant teenager babies😭
kamikaze2891 · 31-35, M
@AbsolutelyFabulous no one takes online relations seriously
justanotherone · 51-55, M
@AbsolutelyFabulous Online men is a different species? Or you meant men online?
oh, online women....
Name and shame.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe a friend of mine told me he did the same to her last year. She called him out in a post and was attacked by his harem. I don't fancy that. Happy to tell anyone who messages me though.
JackHoff · 46-50, M
@Kuronekko Cant message you.
Lilnonames · F
I blocked him long ago
Vetrov · 61-69, M
W-H-I-T-E
S-P-I-R-I-T 👻
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@OlderSometimesWiser if you don't mind me saying, I think I love you lol 😆
JackHoff · 46-50, M
@Kuronekko The song wild thing came to mind. Lol. Wild thing, i think i love you.
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@Kuronekko His mom doesnt count as his friend ;)

At any rate, hes not worth it. Block him, his "friends" dont know you or where you live, right?

I DMd you.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@TallMtnMedic He is blocked, obviously. His friends could easily ruin my experience here.
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