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Got love bombed for a week and then ghosted

Im ok now but it was a gut punch at the time. Im still getting over a breakup so im kinda fragile. People are cruel. Its not like I was looking for that even. Just thought I was vibing with someone.

I won't post his name here because I don't want backlash. But I know he's done this to others too. 😐

Edit: you know what, I have had so many women message me about this guy that I will share his name. It's Slorollin. He is using a pic that looks nothing like him and serially love bombing women before ghosting. You're welcome.
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Miram · 31-35, F
I am curious but I have few names at mind.
A little out of topic, but I don't think it is healthy how some people here move from a person to another romantically. Always finding new love interests. It feels trivializing..and because of all the romantic entanglements these cliques form against each other and fall apart too.

Not necessarily just on SW.
Tumbleweed · F
Been there & then got blocked!! I don't know him, never seen his face, so I wouldn't profess my endless love for him so he got mad & blocked me!
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Tumbleweed wow thats a lot to expect lol
Tumbleweed · F
@Kuronekko Yeah he started right out the gate with I love you & all that, then about a week or so later, was still doing it & it was creepy so I didn't respond & he blocked me!
It wasn't me 👀

Tbh people are shady online and particularly on sites like this where so many people have a host of issues. It's a bit like being on a used car lot run by Shady McShady and expecting to find a car that will last you. You're more likely to find the car crash that you didn't want.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@ostfuidctyvm Lol I wasn't looking for anything serious, but people convince you that you found it.
@Kuronekko Yep, they do indeed do that. Tbh a lot of them are just like cats with a new chasing toy. They'll play with it for a little but then they get bored and need to hunt something else.
I read we are reflecting mirrors of ourselves to a degree. This doesn't mean we 'like' everything about someone but may be a couple of our own traits that we see in them. Recently, I've realized this has happened to me (even though it wasn't reciprocated).
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nihiless Yeah I don't think it's what was happening here. Some guys will mirror on purpose to manipulate you.
@Kuronekko Yeah that's true, just ensure that you don't chase him now or monitor him here. I know it's hard if you like someone but if he did it once he doesn't deserve you. 🖤
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nihiless I'll never chase someone like that. I'm too old for those games. I'm doing what I can to let others know who he is though. I know there are people here who he's really hurt.
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
Ha! I probably know them. Some guys here make their rounds. They chat you up then toss you away later if they aren't getting what they want.
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Just bad luck, sw is full of so many great people
@Kuronekko it’s the quiet ones you watch!
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Nunlover These are funny and outgoing on the surface. Idk how anyone would tell the difference
@tenente I’ll take her in my messages any day 😉
SW-User
Unfortunately, that is more the norm these days than not ...

The person is most likely married and bored or in a sexless marriage...

Keep your guard up
Sorry that happened to you
Tumbleweed · F
The one I mentioned on my first comment to this post wasn't him. I just want to make that clear.
dirge · M
shock and awe!

actually I dunno what to make of that. sorry. it sounds like a difficult time.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@dirge wasn't pleasant 😒
dirge · M
@Kuronekko the build up is usually pretty fun, but the crash back to reality kinda sucks. which is probably true for far too many things.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@dirge yeah it was like getting the wind knocked out of me.
Lilymoon · F
Sorry that happened to you. Hugs
VladG94 · 31-35, M
Sounds like a really weird one, I mean if I actually show interest in a woman, I often really do mean it too to be honest, and my own perverted comments and compliments to her about their bodies and so on is my own manly way of giving love to her too to be honest!!!!
VladG94 · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko Not true actually, some are actually very manipulative and deceptive of other people to be honest and you never know what actually hits you until it actually happens, I would know from experiences like this to be honest!!!! And I disagree wholeheartedly when you say that you gotta focus on that stuff in your life in general since there are lesser importance of some when it comes to something as petty and crappy as relationships to be honest, and people always criticize the man when they say that he has enough and don't conform into the grain as well as reject this so-called modern scripted untouchable unrealistic female standard controls inside the dating games with men and with themselves that they criticize and label men in general as "incels" simply because they don't conform nor approve of this that are so flawed in every facet of society as well as criticize the lack of accountability in other people in general to be honest, even if I were very openly successful in the dating game wouldn't really actually change the outcomes of anything for the better in real life since the results would actually be where I actually am today no matter what to be honest!!!!
VladG94 · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko Which btw, I think it's best to tell your friend that there are generally much better things to do in life than to make an entire post about someone in how she looks at different people and calling them "incels" simply because they might either be some troll that is making her suffering in an actual serious sense or that the person let out some steam and criticism towards what she is might be doing herself to be honest since I know from experiences in general that no one likes entitled narcissistic women that chase after men in general and that the person only trying to guide her into proper ways of embracing femininity in themselves and eventually they will get the best masculine man in their life to be honest but some people are too entitled and in general are too selfish and generally lack accountability in themselves in general that they start making ranting posts about someone over simple criticisms to be honest, which I'm going to say is if the person that she was making an entire post was either some troll in her life is where she'd have to ignore the person or if it so she'd have strengthened self-esteem was really about me all along that she's complaining about to be honest since I already feel that it's about me since I'm an anti-feminist and have different attitudes about infantile women chasing men and even have had negative experiences with men but it's irrelavent to what I've been trying to tell her in sharing a piece of myself and one would think she might have some empathy since I was testing her to see if she was kind on the inside and I think she actually failed the test to be honest!!!! And thus not only women chasing after hot guys is not only unpleasant for the man because there is no high in value of women that do that for the man since there are far greater and more important things that women should seek in a man, but it's also not good for the woman either because I have known women that chase after hot guys in general, my older cousin included, they actually have done this and these hot guys actually ended up treating her like shit and broken her trust and was even physically violent towards her really harshly too as the woman might've had visual attractions towards him but he doesn't have all the hoops of emotional and psychological cues that are much stronger in what women search for in a man as she'd naturally get turned off by a guy whom looks hot but doesn't have any emotional and psychological requirements such as social status, commitment, confidence, kindness, intelligence, and his sexual desire towards her too, as visual attractions in women actually split form her emotional and psychological attractions to him as well too, and I voluntarily tried to come off like a jerk to her, not just only because I find her a turn-off, but also because I'm sort of trying to hide my own notions of being so full of kindness towards her specifically since I'm naturally alot more kinder in general to be honest, so I'm trying to be a turn-off in purpose so she can utterly protect herself from just only chasing after a guy just because he looks cute since that normally leads to hosts of problems in general too to be honest, as there's also a huge lot of plenty of average looking guys that are much more willing have all the emotional and psychological requirement for her in what she really seeks in a man to be honest, at least that is my entire motive if she ever was talking about me to be honest!!!!
VladG94 · 31-35, M
@Kuronekko And thus too, unless you're talking family in general too, such as me losing my father in general then that's important in every way, but some things are less important in general too to be honest!!!
popmol · 26-30, M
i'm so sorry to hear :(
Sweet00Lullaby · 41-45, F
I'm sorry this happened to you :(
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Sorry that happen to you.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
That sucks but I think you have to take online dating with a grain of salt. I think there are a lot of people on here that are just window shopping. And it is easy to strike up interest with someone with no intention of our meeting or developing a relationship.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@melbeacher its hard to meet people in real life these days, things have changed a lot.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
@Kuronekko I completely agree
Who tried to shop who ? May be he didn't like the product or the service.. so he may have gone to another shop..
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@in10RjFox ugh just go away.
Sounds like he was thought lovebombing you would soften the blow. I'm so sorry :(
Sorry you went through that
ironborn · M
This place is ok for friendships, not relationships imo.
GoFish ·
Ay i know the type 😏
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@GoFish I think you know him.
There’s a lot of those here.
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst of course not lol we're friends 🤗
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Kuronekko good I'm glad 🤗
496sbc · 41-45, M
That’s not cool he did that
Magenta · F
😑 And this is just another reason for this..

https://similarworlds.com/literature/write-how-i-feel/5269571-This-is-EXACTLY-how-I-feel-anyhow
Magenta · F
@Kuronekko There's always excuses from others too, "take on-line with a grain of salt", "don't take on-line serious", "don't or do or do or don't, blah". Which only serves to take all responsibility away and trivializes and invalidates everything!😒
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Magenta yeah these are so unhelpful. Victim blaming.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Magenta ikr
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Notsimilarreally I don't think he goes anywhere. I'll pm you.
SW-User
Pick them better hun
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@SW-User It's not like they wear a label warning you of their real intent. They are kind, present, funny and nice. Honestly, how??
SW-User
@Kuronekko maybe you need to ask better questions? Try not to get yourself caught up in how you feel?

Pick up on the patterns (i.e. - there answers to the questions you ask)

Maybe change what you look for in a person
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@SW-User I wasn't looking for anything. I don't think you get what happened here lol
SW-User
Yuck.
Men.

Give them a boner, and once it's gone, they don't know what to do.
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Its easy to get suckered into that kind of stuff :(
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Kuronekko i felt like a drug addict when they took the attention away 😢
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@PaleandPolluted yeah I felt like I was being sucked into a plughole lol
StygianKohlrabi · 46-50, M
SloRollin sounds like he should be called FastRollin. At least Mr. Rollin tries to be part of the community unlike some lechers but I dunno him. Did he try and catfish you with any dpics?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@StygianKohlrabi he catfishes with his nice guy routine.
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Online men act like giant teenager babies😭
kamikaze2891 · 31-35, M
@AbsolutelyFabulous no one takes online relations seriously
justanotherone · 56-60, M
@AbsolutelyFabulous Online men is a different species? Or you meant men online?
oh, online women....
Name and shame.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@aboveaverageaveragejoe a friend of mine told me he did the same to her last year. She called him out in a post and was attacked by his harem. I don't fancy that. Happy to tell anyone who messages me though.
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
@Kuronekko Cant message you.
Lilnonames · F
I blocked him long ago
Vetrov · 61-69, M
W-H-I-T-E
S-P-I-R-I-T 👻
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@OlderSometimesWiser if you don't mind me saying, I think I love you lol 😆
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
@Kuronekko The song wild thing came to mind. Lol. Wild thing, i think i love you.
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@Kuronekko His mom doesnt count as his friend ;)

At any rate, hes not worth it. Block him, his "friends" dont know you or where you live, right?

I DMd you.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@TallMtnMedic He is blocked, obviously. His friends could easily ruin my experience here.
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