I wish he hadn’t semi-ghosted me

I fell for someone. He broke my heart

Instead of ending it, he said he was too busy with work and needed a break. Then he’d text randomly. I told him to just tell me it’s over since it’s obvious he’s not interested. He won’t. He says he’s still interested. Feel like He’s stringing me along

I hate that. I want to block his number but part if me wants to believe he’s telling the truth

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4meAndyou · F

I think it's time to build a defensive wall around your heart and your feelings where this guy is concerned. I am not saying block his number. But pump a LOT of anger like air into your tires. THAT helps, when someone is treating you poorly.

With anger, your feelings will begin to slowly become more numb...and eventually, you will find that YOU have taken a break.

When he says he is still interested, he means that he is still interested in having sex with you, but he doesn't really want a relationship. I would expect him to try to pop back into your life for a quickie at some point, but if I were you, I would shut him off.

TigerLili · 46-50, F

@4meAndyou yeah he popped back into my life just before Xmas and then disappeared. Thanks

4meAndyou · F

@TigerLili He got his quickie, and that's all he wants you for. You're his free stuff. He only needs the stuff every once in a while, but he's not willing to have a relationship like a NICE guy would, in order to get his freebie.

TigerLili · 46-50, F

@4meAndyou for a quickie I forgot to add

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