I got men in my life who made me hate myself more, told me i am worthless.

Why is that some people get a partner who shows them how to love themselves when they are hating themselves and some people get a partner who makes them hate themselves more than they hate themselves.

They say self-love cures.... but seems like some people got partners who helped them get over their self-hatred.

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Zeuro · 26-30, F

I’m sorry that happened. Those men don’t deserve your love. But I promise, shovel through enough muck and you’ll strike gold. Someone who both lifts you up and helps you be your best self. It’s easy to think about those bad relationships as time wasted, but they were teaching you more about what you really need.