I want to ask men something

Only reason to have a wife is to have kids other wise it is not worth the trouble anymore. Very few women saves themselves for their husbands. Most the time men are having to settle for women who have children with previous partners. Are you saying just the man and children such as she's already got a child well and why should I take on all that responsibility if she's not willing to offer me a child but she gave you some guy she met it or nightclub. This isn't always the case and maybe I'm a little bit down I still believe that they're are happy marriages out there I would love to have one but having been burned by several women in the past I don't know if it's even possible.