I want to ask men something

@JonUK31 which country u from if u don't mind saying?

@sahi81 UK - as in my name. You?

@JonUK31 India

@sahi81 Is it kind of expected you'd have kids?

@JonUK31 yes in most cases, i think so. Especially if their family wants them to. Idk tbh, i should talk to more people here personally to know that. I think most Indians want kids bcuz they feel it's necessary for their old age. Maybe few people are fine with not having kids. Personally i never saw anyone married here not have kids ( they all have atleast 1 kid), unless they never married. Maybe it depends on area, i heard in rich areas girls have more freedom, i never been to rich areas to know for sure. Level of freedom of choices are less in average areas and even lesser in poor areas. Personally i am from average area.

@sahi81 So you don't really want kids but feel you'll have to?

@JonUK31 yes. excatly. And in first place it might be hard for me to anyone even want to marry me if i don't want kids ( and also adopted kids) unless he is jobless or homeless person and had no other option but to depend on me lol

@sahi81 That's a terrible position to be in. Is it bringing up kids you don't want or more like the whole pregnancy/childbirth thing?

@JonUK31 bringing up kids. I think i can't raise kids well, i might have to go through lot of tensions and worries to raise them. I don't want to deal with that.

@sahi81 Same as me. Have you thought about a different country where having kids is not compulsory?

@JonUK31 Yes, UK, USA, CANADA, etc. Mostly western country men seem to be more open about the idea of not having kids. I am trying to move to other country.