Why don't good men come in my life?

Do any men who don't feel superior to women even exists? If so, why don't they come in my life? Is it something like women have to approach them? or they don't have interest in me?

Is there anything i can do to attarct or find or make myself approachable to good ones?

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

The best thing that any woman can do who is looking for a good man is to quickly and I mean like her life depends on it drop any connections with looser men
Don't keep them as potential partners
Don't keep them and sex buddies
Don't give them a chance
Don't see the potential in them
You will waste your time and sink deeper into a pit of getting used to nonsense that will start to seem normal to you until you are living in a self fulfilling prophecy of bad men and bad relationships.
Lots of people are awful both men and women and dating is toxic now so just don't be toxic and don't accept 2 seconds of stupid behavior and stay true to your self. You can be kind and nice but it takes guts to stand firm sometimes which means cutting people off.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@REMsleep weird thing is only such men come in my life and good men don't, i am in my mid 20s and no good man came in my life till now. Idk why

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@sahi81 You are in a mindset of negative thinking. You must have wasted time with losers. Good men may be near you but perhaps are not to your liking for other reasons or you are insulated and hardly meet anyone at all. Could be several reasons.
It's true that it's not easy but it may also involve you widening your net by going new places and doing new things. It is somewhat a numbers game as well.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@REMsleep thx, i think u r right !