How do I let it go?

Recently separated from someone I've been involved with because they decided to be with someone else. I cant seem to shake all those hurtful words I told them and its been replaying in my head. Mind you, they did say some pretty hurtful stuff to me too but for some reason, I felt like I never should've said what I did.

Its been a very toxic situation with us and its like even though they wanted to be friends and stay in touch, I decided to go no contact to protect my peace and heal. All this happened last weekend.

Do you think I should reach out to apologize for those things I said?

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KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

No you should let it go because after all, they were the one that was toxic and they were the one who decided to hurt you. I have recently been through a similar situation, and decided to break off all contact. That person continued to try to contact me to a certain extent and also throw in my face that they were moving on with someone else. Rather than get mad I treated the situation with indifference and have remained firm in my resolve to move on. Sometimes the best way to let things go is to simply let them go

Alifeinterrupted · 26-30, F

@KingofBones1 yes, ive always known things would never have worked out with them based on their qualities and their traits but I still loved them so much that I hoped in due time, it would all change and they would love me how I needed but if you've been through even relationships and had multiple encounters, you realize people rarely ever change for anyone but themselves.

Im proud of you for standing on business and remaining at bay. They never deserved you.

KingofBones1 · 46-50, M

@Alifeinterrupted beautiful that just echoes in every sense of the word the situation I just went through that is why the dragon Lady and I have the malfeasance we do because I found myself in the very same situation. I just don't know how to elaborate because I think you said it all you described three years of my life. And thank you for understanding that there is a time to let go business is Paramount and I'm just doing me. If it's meant to be it will come to me