Trying to get a woman to define what is 'local' to her for dating is like bashing my head on brick wall!

Got a reply from a woman saying that because I'm about an hour from her in terms of travel time for dating I'm not 'local', so I've asked to her to give me specifics (just for my edification) of what she thinks 'local' means to her. Hopefully I get a not-attacking nasty bitching reply with some genuine honesty.

FYI, her profile says she is in Gosford NSW and I'm in Toronto NSW.

To me, if a woman genuinely wants to meet up I'll go to Sydney, or make a plan to meet somewhere roughly half way, but women will *never* agree to travel most or all of the way to meet a man. I bet a woman meeting another woman for a date will drop all her 'rules' and jump through hoops to go on that date. 8-)

I'm 30 km from Newcastle and most women in the suburbs close to there still will not 'travel' to my area for dates. It's like the area where I live is considered too 'scummy' or something.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

As expected, because I respectfully challenged her narrative, she has failed to respond.

This is the exact wording of my response:

"Hi and thanks for replying it's nice that you took the time to be honest and I thank you for that. So can I at least ask you what is 'local' for you? Is it a circle drawn on a map around the centre of Gosford of say 5 or 10 or 20 km? Or is it defined in terms of travel time to/from a place? BTW your photos are lovely."

Women demand (as part of their 'list of demands') that men who they will consider dating must be 'local' but refuse to ever actually specify what that means. Women are in a lot of ways their own worst enemy when it comes to dating.

Quimliqer · 70-79, MVIP

Possibly next door, or one floor down??

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Quimliqer That's impossible for almost everyone. Few people get to date/fuck a neighbour (my first ex did though when she cheated on me).

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

I think an hour is nothing to travel.

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