at this stage i don't think i'll find a partner

a girlfriend in real life i mean, because i have problems even at this age 46, i have social anxiety, and mental struggles, and are getting older..........the only support system i have now are my parents who are elderly.

so i'm slightly concerned i'll end up never finding a mate.

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0Neil0 · 36-40, M Best Comment

Social anxiety can be pretty crippling, I got over mine by brute forcing myself into social situations (definitely not going to work for everyone) but joining some sort of activity where the social side isn't the focus ie. Cooking classes, cycling club, archery(a personal favourite of mine) if you live near or in a city there will be tons of community projects available to participate in

Try not to put yourself down, try to shift the focus enjoy your life good things do and will happen

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

@0Neil0 thanks mate.

PhoenixPhail · M

I have exactly the same issues. I can't imagine I'll find a partner.

0Neil0 · 36-40, M

@PhoenixPhail stay positive good things do happen try to find something that makes you happy and enjoy your life, people are perspective when you're happy in yourself people notice and feel that.

Being happy in your own situation can really be catalyst for more good thing going on in your life

JessicaSaheel · 22-25, F

We’ll just have faith and search, lots of single ladies out there you’d love to meet❤️

constance

In my experience things happen when you least expect them!

JessicaSaheel · 22-25, F

Don’t be like that, you’ll find love ❤️

PhoenixPhail · M

@JessicaSaheel That's very optimistic.

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