Would you take a cheater back?

My answer is HELL NO! If I ever decide to be in a relationship, which I'm fine not being in one, I'd let her have one chance of being a real, loyal, loving person. She does the unforgivable, there's no going back. I don't care if she cries and beg for forgiveness, it's something you can't take back and there's no second chance. If I were to take her back, I'd be the fool to let her cheat again. The break-up will hurt, that's for sure, but at least I won't have to worry about her betraying me ever again. ✌️

Cheaters are the guilty ones, and I won't show any sympathy to those that do it. Even if they're my friends, I'll tell them straight that it's your fault for not giving that person real love.

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BabyLonia · F

I thonk you cannot say until you are there.
There may be other factors to consider... children, circumstances.

A relationship needs to be worked on and if someone chooses to stay in such a relationship and work on it then respect to them.

People make mistakes you know.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@BabyLonia There are mistakes, and then there are choices. If she chooses to cheat, I would rightfully choose to not take her back. It would be a mistake if I were to take her back.

BabyLonia · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x ok whatbif 10nyears down the line you find out she cheated 10 years back....would that be forgivable?

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@BabyLonia She'd be lying to me, SILENTLY, for 10 years. That's far beyond forgiveness.

BabyLonia · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x but if your life has been wonderful all that time since?

I just think these things are never black or white and that forgiveness is a huge part of a relationship

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@BabyLonia There's nothing "wonderful" in life about getting your heart broken from someone who cheats on you. And when it comes to forgiveness, like everything else, it's earned. And forgiveness depends on what you've done, how often you do it, and how bad it has gotten.

If a woman respects their partner in a relationship, she wouldn't cheat. Same for a man. I understand what you're saying, but I'm still not going to take her back.