Would you take a cheater back?

My answer is HELL NO! If I ever decide to be in a relationship, which I'm fine not being in one, I'd let her have one chance of being a real, loyal, loving person. She does the unforgivable, there's no going back. I don't care if she cries and beg for forgiveness, it's something you can't take back and there's no second chance. If I were to take her back, I'd be the fool to let her cheat again. The break-up will hurt, that's for sure, but at least I won't have to worry about her betraying me ever again. ✌️

Cheaters are the guilty ones, and I won't show any sympathy to those that do it. Even if they're my friends, I'll tell them straight that it's your fault for not giving that person real love.

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Miram · 31-35, F

Sometimes when people make these threads, and they aren't in relationships nor dealing with a cheater, it can mean they are struggling with the helplessness of watching someone they care/ed about settle for less than love. And at times it is because they idealize love and hold it as a virtue, the realization that there are those who do not experience love the same way, and would often take advantage of such trust, creates uncomfortable fears. To love is to be vulnerable. The whole thing is akin to vicarious trauma.