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My boyfriend blocked me for not responding the way he wanted me to.

I feel so hurt about it because we were meant to meet up on Sunday . I feel that everything in my life is going well and I have control over everything but one thing I wish I had control of is my love life. This is something that can’t really be controlled because I cannot dictate how people treat me. He used to always give me silent treatment but I don’t think he would go as far as to block me after all the plans that we made . I’m truly heart broken and I will use my pain to fuel me so that I can become better in other aspects of my life. It is so hard to resist the urge not to call him again . He blocked me on social media but I don’t think he has blocked my phone number yet. I know if I. Ring his number he might block it. I am too scared to check if he blocked my number . I am confused if I should show up to the place where we were supposed to meet up .
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Vengabus · 36-40 Best Comment
Anyone who would block you like that isn’t worth your energy. Someone who loves you would want to talk things out with you.
At best hes trying to manipulate your feelings and actions and at worst that’s his awful way of dumping you.
Just my opinion of course, but you really don’t need him either way.
You’re a strong and competent young woman with her whole life ahead of her. Don’t slow down for losers.
Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
@Vengabus i 100% agree with this, as im not prpud to say that its a tactic ive used in relationships myself. She should not react and she'll see him come crawling back after his power play turns out in failure (if she doesnt entertain him)
Cherryblossom10 · 22-25, F
@Rudboy41 true he did crawl back
Rudboy41 · 41-45, M
@Cherryblossom10 the band 'inner circle' said it best with the song - games people play.