Raw question - what actually is 'sexy'?

I'm uncomfortable talking about 'sexy' and trying to understand/define it with anyone, especially when in a relationship I'm extra-scared and feel like I have to tread on eggshells the whole time in case I get it wrong.

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okaybut · 56-60, M

Sexy is when someone is sexually attractive to you.

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@okaybut ah ok so if I block feelings of sexual attraction because I know I can never be with a particular person who might be considered sexy is the person actually sexy to me or not?

okaybut · 56-60, M

@zonavar68 No, they are still sexy, you can't block desire. You can choose to not act on it.

Caleidoscope · F

Are you really 51-55 year old ?

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@Caleidoscope indeed. Born 1968.

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