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Should I cut contact or have a final conversation?

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When someone initially shows a lot of interest in you, but then suddenly starts acting cold and distant, it's evident that something has changed between you. Despite attempts to address the issue, they insist that everything is fine. However, it becomes increasingly difficult to ignore the obvious shift. At this point, you may wonder whether to go no contact or have a final conversation with them to express your concerns. If they refuse to communicate, it may be best to end contact, as pretending that everything is fine becomes unsustainable. If you decide to cut contact, does it equate to a breakup?
Will the other person eventually return? If they don't, and you were the one to suggest cutting contact, is it appropriate to reach out again in the future to gauge their interest? If so, how long should you wait before doing so?
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Coralmist · 41-45, F
You could say," I thought we both discussed we were happy together..I know I was. Sometimes people or things change in life, I understand that. It's now difficult hanging on to a major shift that is now at a very low frequency ....if you ever do want to pursue things down the line I'd be open, but I guess for now, I'd say good luck in all you do. I really enjoyed you and your time very much. Take care. "

It's just an idea template and no one will ever know the perfect way to say something. At least you can keep it open if she's just confused but you are now giving a boundary that you have feelings and can go on with your life too.