is it normal for guys to jerk off to their girls voice?

I started dating a guy like a week ago but we’ve known each other for few years before dating, we discussed everything and decided not to be sexually intimate before marriage because both of us are date to marry people and do not believe in sex before marriage according to our religious beliefs
Couple of days ago we were on a call and I noticed that he’s jerking off to my voice, I hung up right away and he called like an hour after and I confronted him about it and told him that I’ve felt extremely uncomfortable about it. He kept apologizing, expressing regret and last night he showed up at my house crying for forgiveness
Idk if I’m making a big deal out of it or what should I do not actually know what to do
Because I’ve never been through something similar before

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TryingtoLava

Waiiiit on facetime or legit just the sound of your voice? Cuz if just the sound of your voice gets him allllll energized he prob will be 10 times worse when he gets the real thing careful missy thats pretty weird

pinacoladaa · 31-35, F

@TryingtoLava we were on ft but his camera was off because “he was getting ready for work” and I was in bed covered with a blanket and my face was barely showing

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@TryingtoLava wtf? Have you HAD a boyfriend?

People don't talk about it, but that's not weird at all...

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@TryingtoLava dear, if you and I were on the phone and I started masturbating, THAT would be weird (I wouldn't, you're cute if I recall but that would be disrespectful since we don't have any romantic relationship and don't even flirt together so don't worry) but I would actually think it was weird if a guy had never done that with his girlfriend on the phone when they're not being sexual in person