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Why do other blk people always say I sound white? I only have the accent based on where I lived most of my life.

I feel like I can’t do things I enjoy doing or like to do. I want to make vlogs or do YouTube and TikTok’s but everytime I open my mouth to tell my story or speak up. People have a issue with how I sound. I think I am undiagnosed mildly autistic, and I speak what they are saying white and clear, and some people say I sound like a little girl. I guess I have a baby voice too. I can’t help how I talk I was raised in Wyoming most of my life I was the only black girl in the whole school from the age 10 to almost 16. My parent moved me to the South right before I graduated highschool. Since I moved to a place where more people look like me I get bullied constantly for how I talk even as a adult. It’s like they are mad that I speak politely and we’ll spoken. It’s mostly other blk women that have a issue with how I talk. Which is weird because I hear well spoken blk women all the time and see it online. When I joined a space on TikTok as soon I started talking they was like why does she talk like that, and it really makes me nervous and sad and then I feel like I talk weird. Should I take speech class, do I have a weird sounding voice? Is there anything I can do ?
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WillaKissing · 56-60
Since you put this under a "Dating and Relationships" heading.

Let me expound on the topic of speech and the woman's ethnicity. I would never date an attractive black lady that spoke improper English and sounded ghetto or street and the same would go for an attractive white woman. But an attractive intelligent spoken and sounding black woman I would in a heartbeat. It has nothing to do with ethnicity to me, but all about proper speech and ethics.