This is why I’m single. Am I wrong to feel annoyed by this ?

So I’m very sick today. The guy who’s trying to date me asked me more than once to let him know if I needed anything. After the second time I told him, I need some soup or rice from my fav chinese spot. That I need help w/ laundry or maybe some money so I can take half the day off work. He responds sorry I don’t have much to give. You asked me what do I need. I never asked him for a thing until he asked me if I need anything. I really want to cuss him out. Also we never hooked up or anything but he invited me to another date and I’m tempted to just cancel it. If someone is sick or in need I will help, I get my girlfriends food or tea when they are sick. So a man that’s trying to get w/ me can’t pick one thing is annoying to me. Then the fact that he flexes a bmw, and the postion he has at work but can’t get me some soup. The little things matter to me. Also I’m very sick rn so I’m even more grumpy and pissed about this. X a million.

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Confined · 56-60, M

No soup, no date. Not obligated to do any thing else, but shows as a date, he was not eager to help with food, so unlikely worth a follow up.
If i was really crazy about a girl, I'd get her food.

Lexiitexii · 31-35, F

@Confined he got me the food a hour ago so I’ll cut him some slack. It was actually kinda inconvenience because I was tired I worked all day, I didn’t want to expose him to my cold, but he wanted me to come to his place after work to ride out and go pick up the food. I did it was nice but I still feel like it was backwards af when I could’ve just stayed home rested and liked him more for helping me take a day off. So I barely had much to say to him plus I had a stuffy nose and sore throat. If I sound naggy it’s cause I’m in pain and tired all I wanted was a little break today.

Confined · 56-60, M

@Lexiitexii There is hope for him yet. 😎