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This is why I’m single. Am I wrong to feel annoyed by this ?

So I’m very sick today. The guy who’s trying to date me asked me more than once to let him know if I needed anything. After the second time I told him, I need some soup or rice from my fav chinese spot. That I need help w/ laundry or maybe some money so I can take half the day off work. He responds sorry I don’t have much to give. You asked me what do I need. I never asked him for a thing until he asked me if I need anything. I really want to cuss him out. Also we never hooked up or anything but he invited me to another date and I’m tempted to just cancel it. If someone is sick or in need I will help, I get my girlfriends food or tea when they are sick. So a man that’s trying to get w/ me can’t pick one thing is annoying to me. Then the fact that he flexes a bmw, and the postion he has at work but can’t get me some soup. The little things matter to me. Also I’m very sick rn so I’m even more grumpy and pissed about this. X a million.
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Carissimi · 70-79, F
You are expecting too much from a man you haven’t yet dated. Asking him for money is way out of line. He’s not your mother, or brother. You seem to have a sense of entitlement. Asking for soup was one thing, but doing your laundry, and asking for money was way too much.
@Carissimi I agree. Bringing her something to eat is fine, but that's it.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
If someone I didn’t know well said they were ill, and I said let me know if you need anything (and let’s be honest, most people say this to be polite, they really don’t mean it), and asked for food, that would be reasonable, but to ask me for money, and to do their laundry is over the line. @MsSwan
@Carissimi Very true
Kirin4OTK · 70-79, M
@Carissimi Agreed. Way out of line.