It only makes sense to me in a sexual context the way this is described, sort of like a bit of BDSM. I do agree in everyday life it would be weird/gross or patronizing. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but for whose cup of tea it is, I don’t see a problem with it.
@YoungPoet345 there's a place in South America where large condors swoop down and take the 'good girls' in the villages and fly them to some remote mountain nests, and it's only the 'bad girls that are left to carry on with running the day to day...