How do you deal with a girl who consistantly talks about her ex? It's not my relationship! Why talk to me?

Poll - Total Votes: 26

Be honest and tell her you can't talk to her about it.

Ignore it. She's just playing games.

Hang out with people who actually respect you and your time.

You can only vote on one answer.

Is she trying to make me jealous? Is she just looking for someone to talk to? Why even ask me or anyone?
It's not my relationship, and honestly it feels wrong to comment on it. The hell do I do?

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BizSuitStacy · M

Just remember...if she's talking to you about her ex, she'll also be talking about you when you are her ex.

GohantheThird · M

@BizSuitStacy yeah, I don't want that...

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@BizSuitStacy Why would this help him? Lol.

Also, it's not necessarily true.

I never talked much about my ex boyfriend to my current boyfriend. I got over him prior to getting in this relationship and am no way attracted to him...not in the least. Sooo... it's not a fact that she'll do this in the next relationship.

BizSuitStacy · M

@perceptivei it's about her character. I think someone that obsesses over an ex like that is a red flag. You don't appear to be like that.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@BizSuitStacy 😒