On a scale of 1 to 10, how much of your dating is based on looks?

@Harmonium1923 that show is wiiiild..imagine someone coming up and examining the length of your labia or foreskin?!

@foldedunfolding It's so profoundly weird. I watched the first two episodes, but nothing more at this point. There are a few elements I find kind of thought-provoking, but so much is just nonsense. Also, am I the only guy in the world who really just doesn't care what my (female) partner's genitals look like? I mean, if I've gotten far enough and close enough to see that at all, I've pretty much won the lottery and the last thing on my mind is aesthetic criticism!

@Harmonium1923 yeahh it takes away all mystery or imperative to PURSUE, I believe

@foldedunfolding And it removes the excitement and anticipation of seeing someone naked for the first time once you know you're already attracted to them in other ways.

@Harmonium1923 I don't even find female genitals that attractive. I'm more aroused by the entire body, and not necessarily a naked body, either.