How come it seems all the assholes end up in happy relationships?

Thank you. I didn't mean to rant but I'm really hurt right now and he just played the whole thing off

@Adelh91: "hurt" is one of the reasons many of us are here and is a very valid reason to post. If this site is to be anything like EP, then we should be happy to support each other when we are hurting. I hope you can shake it off soon. 👍🏻

@Ambroseguy80: thank you. I come off as really bitter but I'm not usually like this I just hate people who tread on anyone to get what they want then dispose of them when they're done like they're some sort of inanimate object. Makes me sick

@Adelh91: if you're talking about here on SW, that shit happens all the time. If you are talking IRL, then that is doubly sad, but thankfully doesn't happen quite as often. Feelings are still feelings though no matter where it happens. :(

@Ambroseguy80: in real life. He led me on made me think we could have a future then basically told me I'm a "nice person" but a relationship for him will happen when it happens, he's happy being on his own, and he doesn't want to be with anyone.
All this after I started opening up to him

@Adelh91: I'm sorry sweetheart. I know he was wrong to lead you down a road he decided to turn off into a parking lot from! But maybe he is right about himself (let's just HOPE he really thought things through after starting things up with you). Perhaps it's for the best it went nowhere with someone so wish-washy?!? Hard to see sometimes, but chalk it up to experience and learn from it. I've seen your pic and you should have no problem at all finding someone better for yourself! Meanwhile take your time. Get over the deep hurt first. Then think about how much better off you are without him. 😘