Are there any ladies on here who are on dating sites?

Seems most girls don't like when us guys try and start a conversation by just saying hi or how are you. And that makes sense I suppose since you're getting multiple messages a day n you'd like for someone to catch your eye. What are you looking for would you say. Would you like a good pick up line, or maybe a joke or something to try n make you laugh? Or maybe a compliment on something you're wearing or somewhere you're at in one of your pictures.