Is it okay to be “too comfortable” early in the dating stage?

Examples:
*Calling me stupid in a playful way
*Dismissing me when I’m talking
*Cuss and complain about other people in front of me
*Questions everything I do and give snarky comments on them

The situation is all too familiar to me. Abuse being disguised as a joke or playfulness. Talking to this person has its pleasures and also a run down to memory lane filled with trauma.

I adore a man who is more emotionally open and knows what he wants but there’s a catch. I feel like the stake is too high.

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SW-User

Yes, the stakes are high, but they are ripe for you to make them high too... And if they don't respond the way you like, tell them to walkaway?

Menetics · 26-30, F

@SW-User Overall, he’s an okay person. I’m just not comfortable being with him romantically. I did tell him I don't see us working out and we haven't talked for 2 weeks. He reached out to me not long ago, and told me I should try and give him a chance.

SW-User

@Menetics It's been a long time since I considered romantically, but when I did, I knew I wanted someone that felt me just a little further deeper than anyone. I can say I found them, my best advice - don't settle and express what you want.

Menetics · 26-30, F

@SW-User I appreciate your insightful advice. Thank you!

SW-User

@Menetics You're welcome.