Why do I always end up in confusing contradicting situations with men?

Also, read a book by Genie Sayles: [i]How To Marry Rich.[/i] Don't be put off by the title. It's got a lot of good ideas about how to conduct a relationship in general. One thing she recommends: When a guy wavers or seems to be losing interest in you...get [i]busy.[/i] Start doing other things, seeing other guys, going out with friends, pursuing hobbies, volunteer work, etc. When the guy calls, tell him you would really [i]love[/i] to see him, you miss him, but you are just way too [i]busy.[/i] If he drifts away, it was never meant to be. If he doesn't go away, but persists, then see him again. Every time he pulls away, you get very, very busy and just do not have the time for him. Asking him over and over what he really, really wants is not attractive or flirty. And being genuinely busy with other stuff and other people [i]is.[/i] It also puts his attentions in perspective and cushions any disappointment you are feeling.

I highly recommend the Genie Sayles book.