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You need to have more confidence with people. You might get rejected and you need to be prepared for that but if you never take the initiative you’re not going to get anywhere. One time a guy I use to work with came right into my office and told me he still had a crush on me from when we worked together and hated himself for never saying anything to me before I left. So he asked if he could treat me to lunch one day. I thought that was really cute and I couldn’t help but smile, so I said yes. He was nervous, and even if I wasn’t interested I would have let him down gently. So take chances and advantages of opportunities. Good-luck!
ItsDanny · M
people fucking suck!

the best way is to pursue interests you are passionate for,, and thus meet those of a like mind. bars and such,, accidental meets not a great method
some research suggest that mere propinquity is the best gauge for likely hood of a hookup. So put yourself near people that are like you in thought and choice
@ItsDanny: how about this way
do the things you like, and love, and when you are doing them? you will encounter people that are more like you, and better to meet
Carissimi · F
@SatyrService: It still is not a guarantee that you will connect on a deep level with someone. I've never met a romantic partner like this. They just happened to "stumble" across my "path."
there are no Guarantees, when it comes to love, there is only increasing your chances of success. alos,, some like an opposite,, others like a compliment
in anthropology these are named exogenic,, seeking the different, and endo genic, seeking the similar
and you chose that path.. btw
SW-User
Ikr? I mean why don't I have a story like the moviessss
"The Perfect One" ahh this idea has poisoned so many relationships
"well she is really great but missing this one thing,,,"
and the perfect one makes it so you want try someone diffent from that ideal, thus shutting out the great many chances
what I have seen that works ( sometime in the movies even)
is people willing and ready to adapt to the needs of the beloved, not being false, ( as so many do during the "Dating Phase") but being honest and responsive.
Love is one of the hardest things to do,, but also can be the most forgiving
It is also,, the best thing there is..
SW-User
@SatyrService: I meant someone perfect for me, I didn't mean to say that a person does not have flaws...
ItsDanny · M
@QueenOfQuirk: pefect is boring and it doesn't exist,I think you looking for something else
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
You just have to be involved in more stupid coincidences
ItsDanny · M
think i'll pass,I dont like anything with the word stupid in it 😂

 
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