How the heck do you meet someone?

I mean most cases when 2 people get together are just stupid coincidences,like highschool romance,lemme just stumble across you and knock you down then help you with your books so you can fall in love with me 😂 and another stupid stuff like that,I know there are other ways but since i'm not a kind of person that go out much and when I go I usually dont stumble across any of these kind of things so how the heck normal people find someone :/ .

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SatyrService · M

the best way is to pursue interests you are passionate for,, and thus meet those of a like mind. bars and such,, accidental meets not a great method
some research suggest that mere propinquity is the best gauge for likely hood of a hookup. So put yourself near people that are like you in thought and choice

ItsDanny · M

uh idk what you just said

SatyrService · M

@ItsDanny: how about this way
do the things you like, and love, and when you are doing them? you will encounter people that are more like you, and better to meet

Carissimi · F

@SatyrService: It still is not a guarantee that you will connect on a deep level with someone. I've never met a romantic partner like this. They just happened to "stumble" across my "path."

SatyrService · M

there are no Guarantees, when it comes to love, there is only increasing your chances of success. alos,, some like an opposite,, others like a compliment
in anthropology these are named exogenic,, seeking the different, and endo genic, seeking the similar
and you chose that path.. btw