I need suggestions to propose a girl I am afraid of rejections.

Guys i had not proposed and date with a girl, right now I'm loving a girl in my class, she talks with me casually I am willing to propose her but I am afraid of rejection. Give me suggestions guys.

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doctorlove · M

Well here's one little bit of help - I hope. I can't speak for Australians or Brits but at least here in the States, the word 'propose' is a tricky word to use when speaking about [b]relationships with females.[/b]

If you said "I'm going to propose to her" here in the US, 99% of folks would interpret that to mean you are going to ask her to marry you. That doesn't sound like the case, from the rest of your description.

Does she smile a lot when the two of you speak? At some point when both of you are having fun talking, tell her that you really like the time you get to spend around her. It's the truth isn't it? Then add that the two of you should do more of it.

Maybe she'll agree enthusiastically and you ask her what she likes to do for fun. On the other hand, she may be cool to the idea, and maybe behave differently once she learns of your interest. In that case you've at least avoided the outright rejection of being told 'no.'

And by the way ... if you never act - if you never ask - the answer will [b]always[/b] be no.

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

Thx for spending ur valuable time for me

SW-User

kidnap her and then tell her you saved her from something every boring

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

That was a nice idea but cops will plug electric wire into my ass

SW-User

@MohanKrishnaRao: love need sacrifices...you should practice electrocuting your ass for love

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

@anotherclone: after death I may not meet her because in future her husband will kick me off from this world so I have to live

AlphaCuck · 46-50, M

Pull a wedding ring from behind her ear like a magic trick and say "oh wow, look what I found."

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

Thx bro that will work in us but not in India, if it may happen like this she will take it and she will say this will be great for my cats hand.,in that cause I have to dig a hole and jump into it.

SW-User

Ignore her. Probably she's going to say no. Trust me I have seen this coming.

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

How can I, she stole my heart how can I get it back

SW-User

@MohanKrishnaRao: it's just an infatuation. It's natural for a teenager to feel an attraction for a pretty girl in their class. They mistake it for love. Some waste time their time chasing wrong girl and realize it when it's too late. I have seen this for many of my friends.

Boostedwun42 · 36-40, M

It's not that difficult to tell man either she's into you or she's not sac up and find out

SW-User

No way of proposing is fool proof. If she isn't into you, nothing you do will make her say yes. So an essential part of any plan is to deal with the possibility of rejection.

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

Well said but how

SW-User

@MohanKrishnaRao: That's easier said then done, but keep in mind that her not being interested is not the end of the world. You're still young and there are plenty of other people in the world who may be interested.

adhane05 · 31-35, M

I suggest you should take her out on a date and get to know her first. It is certainly not the time to propose to her just yet.

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

Bro i am an Indian this may not work on her give me a nice one buddy

adhane05 · 31-35, M

@MohanKrishnaRao: You'll have a better chance dating her than marrying her. It will not work out if you just suddenly propose. She will think you are out of your mind, trust me.

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

@adhane05: yes yes bro ur right

SW-User

be blunt, show her the corpse of your last gf...

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

I didn't understand

MohanKrishnaRao · 22-25, M

Bro why I am unable to send u a friend request

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