Should I move on or should I go for him?

I had this ex whom I don't really know why but makes me cry until today. Everytime I remember him my tears just starts to fall but we've already broken up like 3 years ago. My friends tell me to ask him and be my friend again but in my head it says I should move on. I'm really bothered by that.

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firefall · 61-69, M

Well, you probably should move on, but if the memory of him induces you to cry, 3 years later, I'm not sure you're going to be able to, without at least some sense of closure, of it being finished. Do you know why you broke up in the first place?

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firefall · 61-69, M

@jhaylynskie: I well understand & remember that sort of feeling :(
I hope you do try to reconnect with him at some level (esp if he's just been rejected, he may be more open to that). Please, let me know how it goes, if you do?

missinghaven · 22-25, F

@firefall: I would. Thanks for your concern. I also appreciate your advices. 🙂

firefall · 61-69, M

@jhaylynskie: gladly, whenever you need it

Thanos · 31-35, M

U definitely should move on you definitely aren't ready to be friends with him :) things will get worse if you become friends right now

SW-User

He's an ex for a reason, move on

SimilarKing

Move on. End of story.

SW-User

It is already the closure of your relationship. You just take the courage to move on so that you will heal. Don't dwell from the past.

Squririelseekschipmunk · 70-79, F

Yeah..that is a good question u should ask, ur self.

missinghaven · 22-25, F

I don't really know though. I still like him but I bet he doesn't like me anymore.

Challenger1 · M

I would say move on... it sounds like he is a bad thing for you.

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SW-User

No worries! You'll be okay.

missinghaven · 22-25, F

@24depth: Yeah I will be. 🙂

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