Ronin8510 · 36-40, M
I think if morons are allow to practice it, why can't anyone else?

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Because everybody else isn't a moron...?
Ronin8510 · 36-40, M
I meant Mormons lol
marvn5694 · 46-50, M
Sounds Expensive

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It is expensive, it can make you go broke
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
For me: IMPOSSIBLE!!! 😖😝

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I can imagine that 😧 It's likely to be impossible for most women..I think
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
One of those things that sounds good on paper
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Cinderella · 46-50, F
It's better to keep secrets and deny deny deny if you get caught!
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@Meltingicequeen: can't exactly argue with that!

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Lots of papers!
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
Not for me, but to each his (or her) own...
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
@Degbeme: Now we can move on to other topics like blindfolds.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@sarabee1995: 😨 pardon?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
Hahaha! Sending you an explanation...
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
That would result in having more than one mother-in-law. No thank you.

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Wraithorn...best arguement against yet!!
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
@Loretta78: He probably just threatened their mothers with beheading if they nagged him. Interestingly the president of my country has 4 wifes and at least 20 children. The tax payer pays for their upkeep though so he doesn't care.

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Lol Excellent point!
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I don`t like any board games. :p
LachrymoseLamer · 51-55, M
Personally I'm not a fan at all.

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Neither am I
Smh. Not a good idea.

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Indeed
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Uh.... Not for me...... I'd prefer to have one bear lady for myself.. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
I know you are but what am I? ʕ≧ᴥ≦ʔ

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Lol You are Bear! ʕ-ᴥ-ʔ
bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
Nuh uh!! I've seen allie and she is SOOOOOOOO much cuter than I am!! ╲ʕ·ᴥ· ╲ʔ
Smokey · 46-50, M
I can't get one woman to like me that much

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You mean you can't get a polygamist woman?
FallenOptimist22 · M
nonsense in my opinion
anyways i am a one woman man
anyways i am a one woman man

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Oooo Thumbs up!
FallenOptimist22 · M
😝😎

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No thanks.

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One is more than enough when she's bitching at you for something dumb you did. Two is stereo, three or more is griping in surround sound, I couldn't handle that, that'd be crazy.

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@hyg346: Was that the reason you 📃🖊 ?

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@Alex1610: no, it was one of many reasons
Cinderella · 46-50, F
I don't want to compete for my husbands time or affection

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That's good! 😎👍
fazer1k · 56-60, M
A term people use to justify infidelity. It's okay if both parties fully consent but I get the impression it's often one sided and one in the relationship wants it more while the other just accepts.

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Polygamy is pretty screwed up
ManicMicah · 26-30, M
I don't see much wrong with it. Yes, it is different from normality, but if it's not hurting anyone and doesn't affect the lives of others, then I don't see a reason why people can't be polygamists. And before someone makes this argument, no, polygamist is not just cheating. The idea behind a polyamorous relationship is that you have multiple partners, but every partner must be on the same page or it is still cheating. If you have a main partner you see before all others and you go out and meet knew people, you tell your partner. You don't have to tell them everything you do with other people, but you have to be honest and upfront about it.
I'm not entirely sure if I'm polyamorous or not. I have cheated on my ex boyfriend because I felt like I needed to have two people (and possibly more) to make me happy. I learned my mistake, and if I ever plan on being in an open relationship, I know that I still have to tell my partner who I'm going to be seeing. I know this type of relationship isn't everybody's cup of tea. And that's alright.
I'm not entirely sure if I'm polyamorous or not. I have cheated on my ex boyfriend because I felt like I needed to have two people (and possibly more) to make me happy. I learned my mistake, and if I ever plan on being in an open relationship, I know that I still have to tell my partner who I'm going to be seeing. I know this type of relationship isn't everybody's cup of tea. And that's alright.
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
Consenting, everyone is happy, I see no problem. While it's not my thing, it doesn't mean that others willing are not allowed to partake.

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Yeah everyone can do whatever they want
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
Actually I wonder if there are only country in this world who allow men to have as much women as they want or if there are also countries who allow women to have as much husbands as they want... 🤔
Salix75 · 46-50, F
yes, a woman taking more than one husband does happen, and seems to have been a more common practice than thought, and comes with several benefits for all involved -including the children.
As one example, here's a report on it: http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/02/when-taking-multiple-husbands-makes-sense/272726/
As one example, here's a report on it: http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/02/when-taking-multiple-husbands-makes-sense/272726/
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@Salix75: Thanks for the link.

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There is-was a country which allow polygamy for both women and men
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
It's messed up, especially when the welfare system is abused to provide for such selfish exploitation.
abe182 · 51-55, M
Seems to formal

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@abe182: lol ....remind me not to give you my zip code
abe182 · 51-55, M
@Archiesgirl: too late 😂

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@abe182: Ha!! That's not my zip code....if you follow that zip code, you'll end up in a very dangerous neighborhood!

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This confuses me..... what was the other... misogyny, right? which is the idea of only two people in a certain relationship, while polygamy is the idea of multiple people in said relationship?
In my eyes either way.. the fact that we have to have groups based off of opinions and genders, alongside race and groups in something like "love" should raise many questions.... as for age.. well that speaks for itself in many cases, though not all.
As for me personally... i could care less about what other people do... but if it's romantic in anyway... i just prefer to stay away from the couples who cant stay away from each other XD
In my eyes either way.. the fact that we have to have groups based off of opinions and genders, alongside race and groups in something like "love" should raise many questions.... as for age.. well that speaks for itself in many cases, though not all.
As for me personally... i could care less about what other people do... but if it's romantic in anyway... i just prefer to stay away from the couples who cant stay away from each other XD

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Lol Your answer seems...undefined
Not in favor of the lifestyle; I'm a one-woman-at-a-time, kind of Indy.

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Kind of Harrison Ford
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
....hmmmm.
I don't want to know.
Puts up the crime scene tape.
I don't want to know.
Puts up the crime scene tape.

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LOL You're interesting...
Rockstar1 · 36-40, M
Still practised in some parts

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You do polygamy?
Rockstar1 · 36-40, M
@Alex1610: Nooo
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
I really don't think I could be bothered with trying to keep 4 of 5 guys under control 🙂

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Lol That's self torturing...

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Stay single and happy.

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Stay single and cheap lol

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@Alex1610: lol.😂😂yup that too. Less expenditure.lol
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Muddyboggy · 70-79, M
@Alex1610: it does mean agreement... does that mean we're consenting adults?

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@Muddyboggy: Hmm...I guess I used the word wrong. All I want to say is that polygamy can tear a happiness of a family apart.
Muddyboggy · 70-79, M
@Alex1610: that's not necessarily always the case is it? Polygamy was made illegal in the 1950's in your country because of the depletion of men but was practiced for generations as it was here in the states. There's many other countries that still practice polygamy with apparently happy families. It's a sign of wealth to have several wives in some places and many women also practice polyandry by having several husbands. Apparently what's good for the goose is good for the gander as well :)
1961dave · 61-69, M
It would be fun having a bunch of women to please, but they would probably drive me crazy.

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They would drive you crazy in lots of different ways lol
1961dave · 61-69, M
@Alex1610: lol, that's very true!😆
Itsmrsockmonkey · M
One female is plenty for me

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😏
Itsmrsockmonkey · M
@Alex1610: especially is she's oriental
Highheelguy · 31-35, M
Agree with others, between consenting adults.. if I had numerous people I loved or wished to be romantically involved with, and everyone was OK with it.. it may have meaning and be great!

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Lol But don't forget the consequences of it if you have too much "fun"
Highheelguy · 31-35, M
Yes, completely.. doesn't rule out the raw passion and excitement that could be had though!
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I have a feeling it doesn't really work most of the time though.

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@JimboSaturn: I think polygamy is just about perspectives, it's not wrong nor right
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@Alex1610: Just saying for some it may work

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@JimboSaturn: I know 🙃
Ismiles001 · 61-69, M
It's not for everyone, but that is the case with most things in life.
Ismiles001 · 61-69, M
Is is cheating if all are aware and approve?

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I thought you said it's not for everyone?
Ismiles001 · 61-69, M
Polygamy is multiple partners, it's not cheating when all are aware and agreeable to the arrangement. And, it's not for everyone :)
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
It exists among fundamentalist Mormons today in some parts of the US. It has proved very oppressive to women and to younger, less powerful men.

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In other words, it costs and it hurts
People should be able to do whatever they want. Nobody has the right to tell them otherwise.

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You've got a point but what about the consequences?
It should be legalized in all 50 states heavily regulated and taxed.

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Oh why?
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
As long as everyone is 100% consenting, what ever works and makes everyone happy.
TheMindBoggled · 26-30, M
Well . . .
TheMindBoggled · 26-30, M
@Alex1610: I'm generally a one woman guy, especially when it comes to true love, but the idea of polygamy was always appealing and alluring to me.

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@TheMindBoggled: Same!!! But the thing is it can cause lots of significant consequences and it goes against our "one woman" or "one man" idea
TheMindBoggled · 26-30, M
@Alex1610: I agree. I guess it's just the harem fantasy of mine speaking.
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
Not for me but I see no problems if you can make it work

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I can't...lol. It's not for me either
Selah ·
I dont caee how people choose to complicate their lives.

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would be problematic

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Absolutely

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A practice

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An infidelity
Kingfish · 31-35, M
I'm all for it.

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Lol really?
kevin82190 · 41-45, M
I like it. my wife not so much lol

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Lol What makes you like it?
Salix75 · 46-50, F
I'd prefer polyandry

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LMAO 👍
tynamite · 31-35, M
Polygamy is good
yllacsar · 46-50, M
Are you & your hot cousins proposing to me ??
yllacsar · 46-50, M
9 is OLD MAID for your average polygamist ....

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@Calliope: Lol Seriously?

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@yllacsar: LMAO!!!!

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im monogamous thats just as bad as open relationships. its like no relationship its just sex with a lot of different people but here you are some what responsible for certain things. its mostly a man having multiple wives not so much a woman having multiple husbands. i say its fucked up. just try having one relationship keep going. thats just a headache. people are messed up in sexuality. this. incest. pedophilia. bestiality.

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I agree. Having one relationship is enough torturing already!
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Hate it

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So do I