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ManicMicah · 26-30, M
I don't see much wrong with it. Yes, it is different from normality, but if it's not hurting anyone and doesn't affect the lives of others, then I don't see a reason why people can't be polygamists. And before someone makes this argument, no, polygamist is not just cheating. The idea behind a polyamorous relationship is that you have multiple partners, but every partner must be on the same page or it is still cheating. If you have a main partner you see before all others and you go out and meet knew people, you tell your partner. You don't have to tell them everything you do with other people, but you have to be honest and upfront about it.
I'm not entirely sure if I'm polyamorous or not. I have cheated on my ex boyfriend because I felt like I needed to have two people (and possibly more) to make me happy. I learned my mistake, and if I ever plan on being in an open relationship, I know that I still have to tell my partner who I'm going to be seeing. I know this type of relationship isn't everybody's cup of tea. And that's alright.
I'm not entirely sure if I'm polyamorous or not. I have cheated on my ex boyfriend because I felt like I needed to have two people (and possibly more) to make me happy. I learned my mistake, and if I ever plan on being in an open relationship, I know that I still have to tell my partner who I'm going to be seeing. I know this type of relationship isn't everybody's cup of tea. And that's alright.