In a relationship if he/she cheats, if you find out how many chances would you give that person, if you truly love them?

And would you consider conversations on the phone cheating. Would it be enough to say it’s over?

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That’s definitely a personal choice to make. I think it’s based on the individual not necessarily how much they love the person. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re expected to give them another chance regardless of how strong the love is. Some people are not able to get over a betrayal like that, and some are able to work through it and be okay with it. Although, if you’re willing to give them another chance just know you’re able to move at your own pace with working towards trusting them again, they messed up here not you. But, you also have to be willing to work towards trusting them again as well. Holding a grudge over it isn’t a way of working towards it. For me personally, I wouldn’t give them a second chance. Cheating in any form wouldn’t be something I’d be okay with the betrayal would be too strong for me and I don’t see myself being able to work towards a trusting relationship again.