What is it about a certain person that draws you to them?

....more than others. I know this varies with everyone, and I do take into account physical attraction, but I'm asking beyond that....is it their charisma, energy, charm, etc?

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Jenandra · 51-55, M

I believe it is an energy thing...perhaps chemistry...

I sometimes know it is there without seeing the person...it's like my soul binds to their soul and the energy feels so good...

Some men and women go merely on looks and this is only skin deep. Some people like doing matching by lining up lists of what they want in a. Person

True attraction is something strong and real...embedded in the inner sanctum of the being...

wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F

fascinating :) What do you mean "without seeing the person?"

Jenandra · 51-55, M

so I sit next to someone at the food court...I know the connection is there...I now this person is beautiful without seeing their face or eyes...

I do only have ten percent sight so much of what I see or sense is intuition or perception...

wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F

@Jenandra: wow thank you for sharing :o

Jenandra · 51-55, M

I'm just saying that true connection is without sight ...true attraction must be aura or energy.....of course physical is important...it is the whole powerful binding mechanism....

wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F

@Jenandra: I agree, thanks again for wording it so beautifully :)