Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

What is it about a certain person that draws you to them?

....more than others. I know this varies with everyone, and I do take into account physical attraction, but I'm asking beyond that....is it their charisma, energy, charm, etc?
Jenandra · 51-55, M
I believe it is an energy thing...perhaps chemistry...

I sometimes know it is there without seeing the person...it's like my soul binds to their soul and the energy feels so good...

Some men and women go merely on looks and this is only skin deep. Some people like doing matching by lining up lists of what they want in a. Person

True attraction is something strong and real...embedded in the inner sanctum of the being...
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@Jenandra: wow thank you for sharing :o
Jenandra · 51-55, M
I'm just saying that true connection is without sight ...true attraction must be aura or energy.....of course physical is important...it is the whole powerful binding mechanism....
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@Jenandra: I agree, thanks again for wording it so beautifully :)
Winterwanderer · 26-30, M
How they look at the world, how they talk, what they talk about. Sometimes you can hear in someone's words and see in someone's eyes their past, how they're more than what you can see, more than what you've seen, and when you explore deeper you find them, all of their different aspects.

I love people who are truly themselves, people who are complex & complicated.
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
very beautifully put :) thank you!
Winterwanderer · 26-30, M
You're welcome
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Élan. Maturity. Yearning. Empathy. Humor, sexuality and intelligence.

Then there's her aura, smile and twinkle in her eye. She's looking for your strength, recognition and ear.

If she's got that, don't fight it.
SW-User
Their humor, confidence, comfortability. If there's an obvious connection, similar interests, friendliness
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
Ah, 'obvious' connection can, sadly, be one sided :( It's less obvious to know how the other person feels, besides your own...thanks for your generous feedback! :)
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
For me that person and I would have to compliment each other in work or play.
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
All that and good vibes
Goralski · 51-55, M

 
Post Comment