How Important is a relationship status to you?

Is it important these days that a guy "OFFICIALLY" asks the girl, "would you be my gf?"

I personally think it isn't, maybe back when I was in my teen years, sure, it is nice and romantic to hear that. But now I think what matters is what you and he feels. I don't understand how most of my girlfriends of my age complain and make such a big deal that their "boyfriends" never officially ask when clearly they are so into them and I know they don't fool around.. I mean, well isn't it obvious that you're together? lol..

I guess if you're my age, it is more like "are we doing this shit or not"

OK, I'm done rambling :D

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Goralski · 51-55, M

I like to make my intentions known so there's no misunderstanding about either of us going out with other people or communicating with old boy friends or girlfriends

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

and there is nothing wrong with that! if you're comfortable then by all means :) im saying there are guys that dont just blurt out how they feel and the girls make such a big deal of it.

Goralski · 51-55, M

@PaintedVeil: that's cause they wanna leave their options open. ..what the girl is likely to hear in the future is "what. .we weren't exclusive "

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

@Goralski: I got ya ;) girls should be smarter in reading obvious signs, as i have said before... guys are simple creatures.. we women are overthinking and overreacting ones >_<

Goralski · 51-55, M

@PaintedVeil: yes we are there's not enough blood and oxygen ta supply both of our brains:(

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

@Goralski: and that explains why you are bad in multitasking :( lol.. awww 🍫 here have a chocolate! :D