How Important is a relationship status to you?

Is it important these days that a guy "OFFICIALLY" asks the girl, "would you be my gf?"

I personally think it isn't, maybe back when I was in my teen years, sure, it is nice and romantic to hear that. But now I think what matters is what you and he feels. I don't understand how most of my girlfriends of my age complain and make such a big deal that their "boyfriends" never officially ask when clearly they are so into them and I know they don't fool around.. I mean, well isn't it obvious that you're together? lol..

I guess if you're my age, it is more like "are we doing this shit or not"

OK, I'm done rambling :D

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Mondayschild · F

I guess when we are with them a lot it is taken for granted, and I have made a lot of mistakes not realizing that I was considered belonging to someone. *facepalm* I didnt know I was cheating or was I?😟

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

Aww :( well my personal experience, when I have set my heart and my eyes on someone, the fuck with others lol.. so I don't even have time to think of other guys.. and as long as this guy I like treats me well, and he knows how I feel, that's all I need to know. If in the end it doesn't work out - I deal with it then but the heart wants what it wants, and again, I live in the present... I won't let tomorrow stops me from being happy today ;)