How Important is a relationship status to you?

Is it important these days that a guy "OFFICIALLY" asks the girl, "would you be my gf?"

I personally think it isn't, maybe back when I was in my teen years, sure, it is nice and romantic to hear that. But now I think what matters is what you and he feels. I don't understand how most of my girlfriends of my age complain and make such a big deal that their "boyfriends" never officially ask when clearly they are so into them and I know they don't fool around.. I mean, well isn't it obvious that you're together? lol..

I guess if you're my age, it is more like "are we doing this shit or not"

OK, I'm done rambling :D

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Ready2LLL · 46-50, F

That's a good question to ask, it should be asked more then there's no confusion

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

:) yup but not all guys are good in expressing themselves. I know a lot of them feel awkward and uncomfortable confessing or even asking but in their hearts they know you're the one :D

Ready2LLL · 46-50, F

@PaintedVeil: very true

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

@Satisfiedlove: mmhmm so i guess it depends on the guy. I'm saying a lot of girls are obsessed over this thing that instead of making the guy feels comfortable and starts to open up, he feels pressured and annoyed in the end. I believe when a guy is into you, you're the only he wants to be with, but I also understand girls have their doubts and fears. Then again, if there's no trust and chillaxing in a relationship, then why the hell are you with him? :D

Ready2LLL · 46-50, F

@PaintedVeil: I Feel It Works BOTH WAYS, The GIRL SHARES ALSO

pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M

@PaintedVeil: And note how this paranoia in these women is completely socially acceptable, yet if a man did it it'd automatically be bordering on abusive control?

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

@pianoplayingsteve: it is a matter of point a view, every action must have reaction. i believe everyone has their own reasoning and background to do what they do. if he/she is worth it, fight for them until there is nothing left to fight for, nobody's perfect but they are worth fighting for at one point of their lives. i am with someone who is one of the most difficult men ive ever met, but he is worth every fight... that lucky bastid 😏

PaintedVeil · 41-45, F

@pianoplayingsteve: women are emotional and (yes, girls are gonna hate me after this lol..) stupid creatures sometimes ;)