Reaching out to exes: yay or nay?

There are 2 kinds of exes. The ones who ended on a bitter note and the ones which were mutually accepted as ended.
The latter types usually creates long lasting friendships. I do have some such exes and am fortunate to have them in my life. However, the lines are clear and not to be crossed again. In fact we dont even get close to that.

Being on good terms with your exes doesn't mean you don't move forward. You're not stuck in the past just because you still like some guys from your past.
Many of my exes are very good friends of mine; we exchange letters, and we see each other occasionally.

Ehhh, I don’t know, man. If you want to hang out and catch up that can easily be done over a cup of coffee, but regardless there’s a past there and igniting such an interaction could bring up feelings that could make keeping it platonic difficult. As long as you can keep your emotions in check, I see no harm in opening the door to create a new platonic path. It takes two to create that path though so just be mindful of how easily it could all go awry. The severity of the drama within that what if may not be worth it when there’s plenty of other uncomplicated situations you could build a friendship in.

You’ll end up back with him.

i would let it be. my ex still texts me trying to be friends and it just brings back unwanted feelings and anger. it’s best to find a different friend to catch up with haha

Keep it in the past. There’s billions of people out there…keep moving forward, you’ll connect with the right person 🤗.

Answer is ..... no

Each to their own. Personally I prefer to stay clear from all the emotions that led into the breakup, as well as those following in the wake of it.

It’s a nay for me
Never worth it