does it makes me less of a dom if i understand feelings?

i m a dominant guy but instead of starting with a firm hand i care abt the feelings of my subs does it makes me a bad dom???

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hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

It makes you human, imho.

Only you can define the nature of your relationships. One size does not fit all.

dark225 · 31-35, M

wat do u mean 1 size doesn't fits all???

Nettle · F

@dark225: They mean that every D/s relationship is different, because of the personalities involved, and even then the relationship will change as time passes and the people involved change naturally.

hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

@dark225: Simply that there is no one right way to have a D/s relationship. It's up to the people involved to define how it looks and feels.

dark225 · 31-35, M

@hisgoodgirl: feeling needed is good???

hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

@dark225: Doms and subs need each other. That's the essence of the relationship.

dark225 · 31-35, M

thanx thats helpful

DoctorSin · 46-50, M

@hisgoodgirl: wise words.

hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

@DoctorSin: thanks.

DoctorSin · 46-50, M

@hisgoodgirl: you are welcome. your answer was clear and resumed all that is necessary to say.

hisgoodgirl · 46-50, C

@DoctorSin: I tend to be concise and choose my words carefully.

DoctorSin · 46-50, M

This is a good habit and it makes your advices easy to follow. Keep sharing your knowledge and more people will understand the lifestyle.