does it makes me less of a dom if i understand feelings?

i m a dominant guy but instead of starting with a firm hand i care abt the feelings of my subs does it makes me a bad dom???

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Nettle · F

No it doesn't!
If you didn't have empathy and understanding of your sub's feelings, you'd be a really shitty bastard of a self-absorbed sadist, and not a dom at all!😨

dark225 · 31-35, M

thanx a bit scarry words tho

Nettle · F

@dark225: Sorry! Lol!!😏
But there's not much point beating around the bush! Straight up honesty, that's what your question needs!😇

dark225 · 31-35, M

i asked that right away n got a few rude comments idk why