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I am a good person with great qualitites, good character, high standards, good morals and values, but..., I am disabled, not my fault, not a physical disability either, and out of my control. Unfortunately, I am unable to work, because I can't hold a job to save my life. I am always running into the same problem every time I try to date, REJECTION, just for being totally honest and truthful about myself. Apparently, my worth is measured by my career, which i do not have one, my living arrangements, and my income and not by me, as an individual, no matter how good of a person I am. I have been hurt so much and so bad by this it's extremely hurtful, frustrating, upsetting, etc. At times, I feel like giving up and just accept that I will never find true love and be loved as much as i have been trying to give to others my entire life. I think its just so unfair, and wrong...I just don't know what to do anymore...
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SW-User
so you think its your disability,or rather your financial situation and career that stands in the way more?
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
My disability stands in the way of me getting any kind of education to get a career.
SW-User
@Quietbeauty: so you not earning money is the issue then. What kind of disability are we talking about?
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
I have an income, SSD, and its a mental health issue
SW-User
@Quietbeauty: so it can't be so bad🤔I mean not all careers require universities..just pick something to passionate about ans start small.bills are payed after all
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
@Traubi: I tried to explain, I can't hold a job, you see in my post?
SW-User
@Quietbeauty: yes i did...sorry. But as a man,honestly the last thing i look at is my partners income.. I can't speak for others of course but I really doubt that would be the issue
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
Well, for me, it has been for longest time, I just got rejected three times last night by three different guys, just by being open and honest, because that's how I am as a person.
SW-User
@Quietbeauty: you mean on here?