If someone is being distant for too long, I just walk away
The chase of someone playing hard to get could be interesting for a while, but that wears off quickly if there is no progress.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
I find most people boring regardless

SW-User
Yeah there's some truth to it fo sho. It can feel desperate when offered instantly always. Sometimes we like the chase and to feel like we earned it
No... the last thing I need is for my man to be as complicated as my health. I'd much rather know where I stand with him.
DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
There's some truth to it, people are compelled to want something they know they cant get
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
The smell of desperation is definitely less attractive.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@KuroNeko people offering it on a plate isn't attractive. I reckon its more fun when you've somehow earned it, same with compliments.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@PaleandPolluted For sure.
sassypants · 36-40, F
When they are distant its much more difficult to see their faults.
SinlessOnslaught · M
What about someone who switches between being distant and being clingy? SEND NUDES NOOOOOOWWWWWW!!! Nevermind, I'm not interested anymore.
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SinlessOnslaught yes..
SinlessOnslaught · M
@PaleandPolluted Strange lol
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SinlessOnslaught that was a weird situation. I made loads of posts on it.

SW-User
I prefer people who can communicate and be consistent with their feelings, the distant ones... particularly those that go from distant to not distant are frustrating.
alan20 · M
It seems to be for some women! I have this distant friend; if I want to get emails from her I have to ration my own.
UpForItNow · 22-25, F
The distant otherworldliness of Asperger's people can be most attractive.
@UpForItNow that's an interesting take
Ksmile14 · F
I don't think so.
I mean if someone is clingy that's bad, but I never understand the "don't text for two days" thing or the "act like you don't care" thing. That just seems stupid to me.
I mean if someone is clingy that's bad, but I never understand the "don't text for two days" thing or the "act like you don't care" thing. That just seems stupid to me.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Ksmile14 hmm i mean before theres been any connection built when you're trying to attract them.
Ksmile14 · F
@PaleandPolluted I understand but I still don't think so.














